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Preschool BullyingRelated Content
Research has shown that school bullying is taking place throughout many middle and high schools across the Nation. Bullying behaviors can start as early as preschool and preventative steps need to be taken to target such behaviors among our children. What is bullying?Bullying is aggressive, deliberate, and threatening behavior that harms or frightens another child and, usually, involves children of unequal size and strength. (See: Bullying Among Children and Youth.) Bullying can be physical (hitting, kicking) or it can be emotional (teasing, name-calling, ridicule, exclusion from group play). As children get older, these behaviors can escalate to include bullying over the Internet and cell phones, otherwise known as cyberbullying. Bullying causes anxiety and fear in young children, affecting their self-confidence and ability to learn, as well as contributing toward depression. Even bystanders can be affected by bullying. If not stopped early, bullying can have long-term consequences to the mental and emotional well-being of the bully and individuals who are bullied. Where does bullying occur?Most bullying occurs at school, although it can occur in other settings, such as on the playground, school bus, or elsewhere within the community. How do I know that a young child has been bullied?A young child might not tell you (or know how to tell you) if he or she is bullied at school. So, how do you know what behaviors might raise a red flag that there is a bully in a child’s life? Watch children for the following symptoms:
What can we do to address bullying?Keeping open lines of communication between children and their caregivers strengthens children’s resiliency. Ongoing communication sharpens children’s ability to communicate appropriately and effectively, enhances their sense of self-worth, heightens their problem-solving skills, and increases their internal locus of control (belief that they are in control of their own behavior). What if my child is the bully?Research has shown that children who bully often suffer from psychosocial problems and may have difficulties adjusting to social situations. Some studies have even indicated that bullies may suffer from depression, which may cause them to engage in aggressive behaviors, especially towards their peers. On the opposite end of the spectrum, some bullies are often seen as popular at school and may suffer from too much self-confidence, which often leads to choosing bullying victims that suffer from isolation and low self-esteem. The general theme that lies within bullying behavior is the lack of ability in dealing with problem-solving and social situations. This may stem from developmental and adjustment issues with the child and it is important to address this issue early on. So, what can you as parents do when your child is being a bully?
Family Activity: Preschool Bullying: What Can You Do? Resources:From SAMHSA
Health Resources and Services Administration
From The Journal of the American Medical Association
Books on Bullies and Bullying (some are appropriate for preschoolers) |
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